You just started dating a man, everything seems to be going great, you even got to the most intimate stage, but suddenly - as soon as sex happened - the man disappears somewhere or abruptly changes tactics and gradually leaves the relationship.
Possible causes are reported by the Dr. Evin website.
The man was just looking for sex
It is not easy to identify such a cunning man, because he will never say directly about his intentions. As Olga says: "He will be gallant, will do everything to make a woman give him what he wants so much". Sometimes a man goes further and throws loud statements like, "I love you madly," which is naturally untrue if you've managed to meet a couple times. Also, a man can use sex as manipulation - if he doesn't get what he wants, he leaves you. The expert says that such behavior should alert a woman if she herself is in search of a long-term relationship and is not ready for fleeting meetings.
A woman's subjective assessment
Another reason why a man falls out of a relationship after having sex is that his expectations did not coincide with reality. The psychologist is sure that the extremes can scare a man: "He will be equally wary and complex, and excessive looseness. Olga adds that a rare man can put up with "sagging" sex in a relationship. In this case, the problem is often not related to the woman herself - it is only a subjective assessment of the man. Mismatch of expectations and reality can provoke a man to leave.
It takes time for a man to get involved in a relationship
This also happens with members of the stronger sex. Even if he likes a woman very much, and there were no problems with the first sex, he can still begin to distance himself. "He can be distracted for a while at work, completely switch to a distracted activity," says Olga. A man needs to collect his thoughts and be alone, however, women often ruin everything themselves by starting to attack with messages and calls. This discourages all the desire to continue communication.
A man is not free
A rather popular reason that women often refuse to take into account is that he is simply married. "A man is looking for quick sex without commitment on the side," comments Olga. It is important to realize that this type of man not only does not need a relationship, but also does not need regular sex with a new woman. Olga Savskaya: "These men need adrenaline, a drain of emotions, women for short affairs, these men can look for both in special establishments and simply get acquainted in social networks, hiding their status".
It is also advisable to learn that women can unknowingly make a beau disappear.
