A 32-year-old woman said on Reddit that she had an affair with a man who was a father-figure and hid an important part of her life from him. In the comments, users of the site recommended her to tell the man the truth about herself as soon as possible.
This is reported by the Dr. Evin website.
The woman noted that her partner is 57 years old. He is handsome, kind and has a good sense of humor, besides, he is a passionate lover. However, during the relationship, she never told him that she had children: a 13-year-old son and a 10-year-old daughter.
"I adore them immensely but for some reason I don't talk about them," she wrote, asking for advice in such a situation.
Forum subscribers agreed that the secret should be revealed as soon as possible.
"That's what you should have said on the first date. You will not get rid of the children if he does not like the fact of their presence", "You need to urgently talk: then in case of dissatisfaction you will both find new people and will not waste each other's time", "My boyfriend says that a man who himself did not ask about your marital status, maybe not so much care about you and wants only sex", - write her.
Earlier, psychotherapist Colleen Nolan gave advice to a woman who started texting a stranger secretly from her husband. In response, Nolan called the woman's behavior cheating, as she conducts intimate conversations behind her husband's back.
It is also recommended to read the material entitled "Why women don't want sex and how to slow down ovarian aging".
